I really feel for you, but honestly I don’t even remember what a tough breakup feels like. It was so long ago in my life, it’s like it never even happened. So yeah, I guess time really does help. You know, some people might think I’m weird for saying this, but I don’t want a relationship. Stuff like porn vr games has kinda replaced porn sites for me when I’m alone and bored. It’s super realistic, but at the same time, I don’t have to deal with any emotional drama, which is great.
That's always a difficult process. For me, getting completely absorbed in new hobbies and long walks helped tremendously. I created massive playlists for those walks by using https://yttomp3.de/ to save calming podcasts and new music from YouTube as MP3s. Having those audio escapes ready offline gave me a healthy distraction and something to focus on besides the heartache, which was crucial for healing.